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Angela Skurtu Therapist in St Louis

Meet the Therapist in St Louis

Angela Skurtu M.Ed, LMFT is a Missouri Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Nationally (AASECT) Certified Sex Therapist.

Angela provides counseling in Ballwin, Mo, including couples counseling, marriage therapy, and sex therapy. Click to find out more info

Helping Couples Overcome Infidelity by Author Angela Skurtu

Helping Couples Overcome Infidelity

Angela Skurtu's second book, Helping Couples Overcome Infidelity, covers eight milestones couples need to rebuild their lives after an infidelity. The book teaches how to rebuild trust, learn to forgive, and create a healthy sex life.


Pre-Marital Counseling

Angela Skurtu's book, "Pre-Marital Counseling: A Guide for Clinicians." (Routledge, March 2016, $29.95), covers the predictive factors for marital success, the five habits of healthy relationships, and researched strategies for maintaining desire in a long relationship.

This guide for clinicians can even be useful for clients wanting to make a lasting marriage successful. Click here to order from Amazon.


Marriage Therapy

Find out more about Marriage Therapy. What is the process? What are the goals? Your Therapist in St. Louis can help. Click for more info.


What do I need to do to schedule an appointment?

You can either email, submit a contact form, or call indicating your interest including days and times that work best for you. I get back to clients faster via email or contact form. You will be asked to provide your full name, phone number and credit card information to secure an appointment. There is a 48 hour cancellation policy. If you do not cancel 48 hours in advance, you will be charged the full session fee. Your therapist will offer to send you the intake paperwork via email or you can download the intake form at the "New Clients" page.


What are your fees for service?

For a typical 45 minute session, the cost is $150 for sessions on Business Days. Couples can opt to do a 1.5 hour session. A 1.5 hour session is $300 and can be scheduled weekly, every other week, or every third week. Weekend and weekday couples intensives are available. Couples intensives cost $1400. To schedule a couples intensive, you will be asked to pay in advance for the session. This allows the therapist to keep the day clear and scheduled for you personally.

Special note: I have an intern offering low cost therapy at my site. Her name is Angela Brooks. She is currently getting her Masters Degree in counseling and needs to get counseling hours for this process. As a result, for anyone who struggles financially to pay for counseling, she can offer very low cost care. When you call, ask about doing therapy with my intern if you need financial help.


What length of session should I pick and why?

If you are coming in by yourself, you only need a 45 minute session. If you are coming in as a couple, a 1.5 hour session or higher is suggested but not required. The 1.5 hour session allows couples to start and end their conversation with the therapist present. In 45 minutes, couples often start the conversation but then need to finish their discussion on their own. Since couples are usually coming in because they are struggling to work through their problems, the 45 minute session may not give enough time to fully address the issues. If a couple chooses the 45 minute session, it is best to come in weekly to make progress. Some couples will start out with 1.5 hour sessions but then change to 45 minute sessions after a few visits.

Couples who do the 1.5 hour session also report they feel less rushed and have more time to learn the various skills in therapy. When couples choose the extended session, they usually come in every other week instead of weekly because they have more time in session to cover issues. From a therapuetic standpoint, the longer sessions tend to have better outcomes because I have an opportunity to fully assess the problem, offer solutions, and even do a little troubleshooting on why a solution has not worked in the past.

When couples want to get every problem out on the table and have a lot of issues to sort through, a couples intensive is appropriate. During this session, we do a big overview of all the issues a couple is struggling with. We develop a plan of action by the end of the session for the couple to work on. Usually couples who start with a couples intensive will continue with shorter sessions afterwards. However, some couples report the intensive was enough for them to get started in the right direction.


Do you offer evening or weekend appointments?

Yes. I have 2 evening timeslots available most days. Evenings are reserved for private pay 1.5 hour sessions. The timeslots available include 4-5:30 pm and 5:30 to 7 pm. These slots fill up fast and often need to be scheduled in advance. However, if you plan to be a regular client, you can schedule 2-3 sessions ahead of time to secure your preferred timeframe.

Weekend times are available in the form of the a couples intensive session. These can be scheduled at any time with the therapist Saturday or Sunday mornings.


Do you take insurance?

No. I am private pay only.

Why should I choose private pay instead of using my insurance?

A mental health diagnosis goes on your permanent medical record. A diagnosis becomes a pre-existing condition and can be used to prevent clients from getting cheaper life and health insurance rates later in life. A mental health diagnosis can also prevent clients from getting certain jobs, or clearance to high security positions. Some jobs will even screen for mental illness before hiring new employees. Types of jobs that a mental health diagnosis could effect include, but are not limited to, federal and state jobs, military jobs, pilots, and some church positions.

Also, insurance is very restrictive in terms of the length of sessions. Insurance will only allow billing for a 45 minute session. Couples cannot opt to schedule extended sessions if they choose to use insurance.


How often should I come to therapy?

This depends on the complexity of the problems you are facing as a couple. The length of time spent in therapy is dependent on what the client needs or wants. Some couples will see me for 8-10 sessions either weekly or bi-weekly. Some people opt to do a full day session instead of coming in for weekly visits. In these couples intensive sessions, you cover all of the issues in the day and come up with a plan to work on things. After this session, your therapist offers monthly follow up emails to keep you working on your goals.

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